Discoveries

They say life never ceases to surprise you.

It so happened that a few weeks ago, I felt the urge to prove to myself that my sexuality was intact.  I tried to hint this to my wife a few times, but she turned me away saying she was tired and did not feel the urge for sex at all.  I didn't prod.  I continued to nurse the fantasy that I'd one day take her up.  I tried to fiddle with my imagination by trying to see if my cyberflame was still interested.  It didn't look like it.  The flame turned very formal and I had to give up on her.  I continued to pat my wife and stroke her back every night.  That she has been liking and continues to do so.

Then I was away for about a week for a program that I was facilitating.   The day I came back, I found my wife demurely cuddling up to me.  I realised she was eager for intimacy.  We snuggled up to each other and engaged in a fairly long foreplay.  I love to stroke her back and bums and she has an ample measure of them.  We both became very passionate and before either knew we had one of the most satisfying sessions in recent past.  I was relieved that I was quite strong enough to satisfy her fully.  We lay in each other's arms for a long while.  I was wondering about my fears and all those stupide anxieties about erectile dysfunction and so on.

Of course, regular exercise helps in fitness and that does help in bed.  But life has a way of throwing surprises at you.  That's for sure.  Mind you we both have crossed sixties.